Join me as we dive into the complex world of sex work, morality, and human desire through the lens of adult content creator Bonnie Blue. In this thought-provoking video, we’ll explore the nuances of sex positivity, critical thinking, and empathy, and examine the implications of sex work on individuals and society. From the philosophy of David Hume to the realities of the sex industry, we’ll tackle tough questions and challenge our assumptions. Whether you’re a fan of Bonnie Blue or just curious about the topic, this video is sure to spark interesting discussions and reflections. So sit back, relax, and let’s dive in!
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This video investigates the hidden, long-term harms of COVID-19 lockdowns and social isolation—what I call “The Silent Killer.” Using global case studies (Bangladesh, Japan, South Korea, the UK), personal testimony and scientific research, we trace how enforced isolation, economic shock and uncertainty produced a mental-health emergency: increased depression, anxiety, substance abuse, domestic harm and rising suicide rates. We explore neuroscience (how the brain constructs emotion), biological impacts of chronic stress (telomere shortening, immune dysregulation), links between Long COVID and suicidal risk, and why men have seen rising suicide rates after the pandemic. Featuring real life stories, expert viewpoints (Dr. Daniel Amen, the Great Barrington Declaration, WHO findings) and UK domestic-harm reports, the video argues that social isolation can be deadlier than the virus itself when you account for downstream psychosocial and biological damage. It also offers practical, research-backed ways to rebuild social safety: disconnect to reconnect, active listening, vulnerability, and small behavioural changes that rebuild trust and belonging in a fragmented society. Resources & help If you or someone is in crisis, contact local emergency services or your national mental-health helpline immediately. You can find a list of suicide crisis lines and website for countries around the world here.
Statement 1: Inflammation/Illness and Mental Health Conditions
Research has consistently shown that inflammation and illness can have a profound impact on mental health. Here are some key findings:
Inflammation and Depression: Studies have found that individuals with depression have higher levels of inflammatory markers, such as C-reactive protein (CRP) and interleukin-6 (IL-6) (Raison et al., 2017; Dowlati et al., 2010).
Cytokine-induced Depression: Cytokines, such as IL-1β, IL-6, and tumor necrosis factor-alpha (TNF-α), can induce depressive-like behaviors and symptoms (Raison et al., 2017).
Neuroinflammation and Mental Health: Neuroinflammation has been implicated in various mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia (Li et al., 2018; Liu et al., 2019).
Hormonal Imbalance: Illness and inflammation can disrupt hormonal balances, including cortisol, insulin, and thyroid hormones, which can contribute to mental health conditions (Kirschbaum et al., 1999).
Statement 2: External Stress, Cortisol, Inflammation, and Mental Health Conditions
The relationship between external stress, cortisol, inflammation, and mental health conditions is well-documented:
Cortisol and Inflammation: Chronic stress can lead to increased cortisol levels, which can promote inflammation and contribute to mental health conditions (Kirschbaum et al., 1999).
Stress and Depression: Studies have consistently shown that stressful life events, such as unemployment, financial loss, and relationship strains, can increase the risk of depression (Kendler et al., 2003).
Cortisol and Brain Chemistry: Elevated cortisol levels can affect brain chemistry, including the regulation of neurotransmitters, such as serotonin and dopamine, which are involved in mood regulation (McEwen, 2007).
Inflammation and Mental Health: Chronic inflammation has been linked to various mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and suicidal behavior (Li et al., 2018; Liu et al., 2019).
References:
Dowlati, Y., Herrmann, N., Swardfager, W., Liu, H., Sham, L., Reim, E. C., & Lanctôt, K. L. (2010). A meta-analysis of cytokines in depression. Biological Psychiatry, 67(5), 446-457.
Kirschbaum, C., Pirke, K. M., & Hellhammer, D. H. (1999). The ‘Trier Social Stress Test’–a tool for the measurement of chronic stress. Neuropsychobiology, 39(1-2), 76-81.
Kendler, K. S., Karkowski-Shuman, L., & Prescott, C. A. (2003). Stressful life events and genetic liability to major depression: Genetic control of exposure? American Journal of Psychiatry, 160(4), 738-743.
Li, Y., Zhang, Y., & Liu, Y. (2018). Inflammation in depression: A review of the evidence. Journal of Clinical Psychopharmacology, 38(3), 268-275.
Liu, Y., Zhang, Y., & Li, Y. (2019). Inflammation and mental health: A systematic review. Journal of Affective Disorders, 249, 858-866.
McEwen, B. S. (2007). Physiology and neurobiology of stress and adaptation: Central role of the brain. Physiological Reviews, 87(3), 733-745.
Raison, C. L., Rye, D. B., Woolwine, B. J., Vogt, G. J., Bautista, B. M., Spivey, J. R., & Miller, A. H. (2017). Chronic interferon-alpha administration disrupts sleep in healthy humans. Sleep, 40(2), zsx015.
Have you ever stopped to think about how your childhood experiences are like the invisible strings pulling at your adult self? It’s a wild thought, isn’t it? Those seemingly innocent moments from our formative years can morph into the very foundation of our world view, influencing how we seek approval and navigate relationships. It’s not just about the big traumas; sometimes, it’s the little things that leave the deepest scars. So, grab a cuppa, and let’s dive into the murky waters of our past to uncover how it shapes our present.
The Weight of Expectations 🎭
From the moment we take our first steps, we’re bombarded with expectations. “Be good, be smart, be perfect!” It’s like a never-ending performance where the audience is our parents, teachers, and peers. The pressure to meet these expectations can be suffocating, leading us to believe that our worth is tied to our achievements. If we stumble, we fear we’ll be cast aside, left in the shadows of disappointment. This fear can morph into a lifelong quest for approval, where we constantly seek validation from others, often at the expense of our own happiness.
The Approval Addiction 🥴
As we grow, this need for approval can become an addiction. We start to measure our self-worth against the applause of others, losing sight of our own desires and values. It’s a slippery slope, my friends. We might find ourselves saying yes when we mean no, or bending over backwards to please others, all in the name of acceptance. But here’s the kicker: the more we chase that approval, the more elusive it becomes. It’s like trying to catch smoke with your bare hands—frustrating and ultimately futile.
The Ripple Effect of Childhood Experiences 🌊
Let’s take a moment to unpack how our childhood experiences ripple through our lives. Maybe you were the kid who always had to be the best in class, or perhaps you were the one who felt invisible in a crowded room. These experiences shape our beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. If you were constantly praised for your achievements, you might grow up thinking that love is conditional—only given when you perform. On the flip side, if you felt overlooked, you might develop a deep-seated fear of rejection, leading you to overcompensate in your adult relationships.
Exploring Past Life Regression and Self-Hypnosis 🔮🌀
Now, let’s spice things up a bit with some intriguing tools that can help us dig deeper into our psyche: past life regression and self-hypnosis. These techniques can offer profound insights into how our past—both this life and potentially others—shapes our current behaviours and beliefs.
Past Life Regression is a fascinating practice that allows individuals to explore memories from previous lives. It’s believed that unresolved issues or patterns from past incarnations can carry over into our present lives, influencing our fears, relationships, and even our quest for approval. By tapping into these memories, we can gain clarity on why we react the way we do and begin to heal those lingering wounds. If you want to learn more you can read it here.
Self-Hypnosis, on the other hand, is a powerful tool for reprogramming our subconscious mind. Through guided relaxation and focused concentration, we can access deeper layers of our consciousness, allowing us to confront and transform limiting beliefs. This practice can help us release the need for external validation and foster a stronger sense of self-worth. Plus, it’s a fantastic way to cultivate self-compassion and embrace our authentic selves. If you are curious about Self-Hypnosis, you can book my free 1-to-1 session here.
Breaking the Cycle 🔄
So, how do we break free from these childhood chains? It starts with awareness. Acknowledge the patterns that stem from your early experiences. Reflect on how they influence your current behaviour and relationships. Here are a few strategies to help you reclaim your narrative:
Identify Your Triggers: 🕵️♂️ Pay attention to situations that evoke strong emotional responses. Understanding your triggers can help you navigate them more effectively.
Challenge Your Beliefs: 🧠 Question the beliefs you’ve held since childhood. Are they still serving you? If not, it’s time to rewrite your story.
Practice Self-Compassion: 💖 Treat yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a friend. Acknowledge that it’s okay to be imperfect and that your worth isn’t tied to others’ opinions.
Set Boundaries: 🚧 Learn to say no without guilt. Establishing healthy boundaries is crucial for protecting your energy and prioritising your needs.
Seek Support: 🤗 Don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Whether it’s talking to a trusted friend or seeking professional guidance, sharing your experiences can lighten the load.
Embrace Vulnerability: 🌈 Allow yourself to be seen, flaws and all. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness, and it can lead to deeper connections with others.
Celebrate Your Wins: 🎉 Take time to acknowledge your achievements, no matter how small. Celebrating your successes can help shift your focus from seeking external validation to recognising your own worth.
Explore Past Life Regression: 🔮 If you’re curious about how past experiences—whether in this life or another—might be influencing your current behaviour, consider exploring past life regression. It can be a profound way to uncover hidden patterns and heal old wounds that may be affecting your quest for approval.
Practice Self-Hypnosis: 🌀 Use self-hypnosis to rewire your subconscious mind. By creating a safe space for relaxation and introspection, you can address limiting beliefs and cultivate a more positive self-image. There are plenty of resources available, from guided recordings to apps, that can help you get started.
Engage in Mindfulness: 🧘♀️ Incorporate mindfulness practices into your daily routine. Being present in the moment can help you detach from the need for approval and foster a deeper connection with your true self.
The Journey to Authenticity 🌟
As we navigate the complexities of adulthood, it’s essential to remember that our past doesn’t have to dictate our future. By understanding the impact of our childhood experiences, we can begin to dismantle the approval-seeking behaviours that no longer serve us. It’s a journey, and it won’t always be easy, but it’s one worth taking.
So, let’s embrace our imperfections and celebrate the unique tapestry of our experiences. Remember, you are not defined by your past; you are shaped by how you choose to move forward. Let’s step into our authenticity and create a life that reflects our true selves, free from the shadows of childhood expectations.
Incorporating practices like past life regression and self-hypnosis can be transformative, offering new perspectives and healing opportunities. They remind us that we have the power to rewrite our narratives and break free from the chains of approval-seeking behaviour.
Until next time, be kind to yourself and keep shining your light! 🌟 Embrace the journey of self-discovery, and remember that every step you take towards understanding yourself is a step towards a more fulfilling and authentic life. You’ve got this! 💪💗
Yours truly, Mae
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